Research consistently shows that positive actions from one person can have a significant and positive ripple effect on the overall quality of a relationship. This is true for romantic relationships, friendships, family, and workplace connections.
The 5:1 Rule for Better Relationships
The Gottman Institute's "magic ratio" is five positive interactions for every one negative interaction (5:1), which indicates a healthy and stable relationship.
- Bitterness in relationships (marriage/kids/and so on) drops 40%
- Alcoholism drops 57%
- Feeling spiritually stagnant drops 60%
- Viewing pornography drops 61%
- Sharing your faith jumps 200%
- Discipling others jumps 230%
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